Forgive Insider’s Guide
You’re probably wondering, who is Fanica Rarinca to write a book about Forgiveness?
I’m an ordinary person.
Throughout my life, I have often been to religious services and learned a great deal about forgiveness from sermons and religious books that I have read.
But that’s not the reason I wrote about forgiveness.
Although I learned so much about eternal life and eternal happiness, yet my childhood and my life were quite bitter because I often suffered from the feeling that I am wronged or mocked by the jokes of others.
When you’re unhappy in the present moment, it’s difficult to think about eternal happiness. Over time, I felt I couldn’t accept any more, and I wanted revenge.
To help you understand, let me tell you a short story.
By 2011, I felt tricked by a former colleague. I recently joined an MLM business and this colleague ordered from me products worth almost 50 euros.
When I brought her the products, she asked me to leave them and pay me later. I agreed. I returned in a month and she started crying. She said her husband was divorcing her. She couldn’t pay me either.
Shortly, I’ve never seen that money.
I became furious, and I had a desire for revenge like I’ve never felt before. I felt she was making fun of me, that she was taking advantage of my understanding and of me as a person.
The up-line advised me to forgive her because otherwise, I would lose even more customers and more money, but I felt it was beyond my powers.
I’d spend my nights making revenge plans and get angry every time I thought about her. My up-line was right. I was losing other clients. I tried to forgive her, but I felt like I couldn’t.
One day, while I was at Church, I prayed and forgive her.
By 2015, I went to a workshop on emotional release techniques.
By practicing these techniques and healing much of my childhood traumas, I realized that releasing the wounds was conditional on forgiveness and acceptance.
I also realized that I allowed all my injuries to happen. The way I internalized everything that happened to me, the way I perceived at that moment when I felt wronged or mocked, created my traumas.
I understood that to overcome these wounds, I needed to change my perspective.
The self-help books I’ve been reading have been helping me all this time.
The Church's perspective of forgiveness is a condition for eternal happiness.
The self-help book's perspective about forgiveness is a condition to living a wonderful life in the present moment.
All these books, seminars, and workshops also gave me the tools I needed to overcome any kind of unpleasant situation.
I wrote this book, titled Forgiveness, because there were people interested in what I wrote on the blog or in my book, “Free yourself from the wounds of the past and rediscover happiness!” especially in the chapter about forgiveness.
I developed that chapter from a dual perspective, both religious and especially, of self-help until I got a 17,000-word book. (88 pages in the English publishing format for Amazon).
The title and subtitle of the book are: “Forgiveness: Fast-Track your Emotional, Mental, and Physical Healing Journey and Start Living a Beautiful Life.”
In this book I offer readers:
· Why they cannot forgive, to understand what is holding them back and what consequences they have on their current lives;
· Confusions about forgiveness–Objections that people raise when they think of forgiveness;
· Practical and immediate benefits of forgiveness;
· 11 powerful techniques to make it easier to forgive, to live a beautiful and meaningful life.
If you want to read it in full, free, before it’s published on Amazon, you can download it here.
Best regards,
Fanica Rarinca
www.fanicararinca.com
